The Importance of Self-Trust for Writers: Finding Purpose in Your Writing

By Michelle Melton Cox · August 10, 2023

Writing is a craft that requires not only skill, but also imagination, perseverance, and self-trust. When a writer lacks confidence and doubts their abilities and ideas, they can easily get stuck, discouraged, or lost in the sea of voices and opinions that surround them. But when a writer has a clear sense of why they want to write and what they want to communicate, they can tap into a powerful source of motivation, direction, and inspiration. Let’s explore how knowing your purpose as a writer can help you build self-trust, connect with others, and express your passion in a meaningful way.

Why do you want to write?

Before you can find your purpose as a writer, you need to ask yourself why you even want to write in the first place. Is it because you have a story to tell? A message to share? A skill to showcase? A curiosity to satisfy? A dream to pursue? Whatever your reason, it is important to be honest with yourself and to own your motivation. This will give you a sense of authenticity and commitment that will sustain you during the ups and downs of the writing process. It will also help you focus on what matters to you, rather than on what you think others want from you.

What do you want to say?

Once you have clarified your why, you need to figure out what you want to communicate as a writer. This can be a daunting task, as there are countless topics, genres, and styles to choose from. But if you listen to your intuition, your experiences, and your values, you will discover a core message that resonates with you and your readers. This message can be expressed in many forms: a theme, a thesis, a question, or a feeling. The key is to find a way to articulate it that feels authentic, relevant, and engaging.

How can you reach your audience?

Once you have a clear sense of your why and your what, you need to think about your who: your readers. Who are they? What do they care about? What language do they speak? What stories do they relate to? You don’t have to aim for a specific demographic or market, but you do have to acknowledge that your writing is not just about you. It is also about the people who will be reading it. By being aware of their needs, interests, and perspectives, you can tailor your writing to resonate with them and establish a meaningful connection.

What are the benefits of purpose-driven writing?

When you write with purpose, you are not just creating a product. You are also engaged in a process of self-discovery, growth, and expression. Purpose-driven writing creates trust: trust in yourself, your ideas, and your voice. It creates connection to other people and other things that are in line with your purpose. It creates confidence in your ideas, because they don’t feel random or untethered. And it creates passion that is contagious, both internally and externally. By tapping into your why, you can infuse your writing with energy, joy, and purpose that inspires you and others to act and create.

Writing with purpose is one of the most powerful ways to build self-trust, connect with others, and express your passion as a writer. By knowing why you want to write and what you want to say, you can create a writing practice that feels meaningful, authentic, and engaging. So, dear writer, ask yourself: why do you want to write? And let your purpose guide you.

If you’re looking for help with the key questions you need to answer before writing your novel, I recommend Jennie Nash’s Blueprint for a Book for fiction writers and Blueprint for a Nonfiction Book for nonfiction writers. These books are the basis of the coaching I do with my clients. Learn more about coaching with me.

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